Submission is about relinquishing total control to another person. It’s about having absolute trust and faith in another person. It’s about not having safe words as a sign of devotion.
A slave cannot say they are submissive if they have safe words. Your Master should determine how much pain or pleasure his slave should experience. Like I said its about relinquishing total control to your master. Having absolute faith and trust in him to submit to anything he desires.
Having safe words tells him that you don’t trust him to give all of yourself over to him.
I am not saying there shouldn’t be a limit but your master should determine the limit.
It is important to remember that your pleasure is secondary and the pleasure of your master and whomever else he chooses to use you should come first.
There should be no limits that you are willing to try. Being a slave means willing to do anything, try anything.
There are FOUR STAGES that defines submission, servitude, slavery, and surrender according to the key characteristics of each stage. In my lexicon, to be "at" a stage, every key characteristic must be met. For example, a submissive may exhibit a very broad or even total power exchange, but, without the characteristics of servitude, total obedience, and ownership, is not a slave. Additionally, each level builds on those to the left of it, as indicated in the key characteristics.
Stage 1 - Submission - Key characteristics: power exchange, obedience, respect, and trust.
Some level of power exchange is absolutely necessary for submission to exist, as this exchange is the fundamental basis thereof. Any combination of characteristics may define the exchange… inclusive or exclusive, any duration to consent, any number of limits or parameters. The power exchanged by a submissive can range from very limited to total.
Within the boundaries of this exchange, the submissive makes a basic commitment to obey the dominant. Obedience is typically not (but can be) total at the submission stage. There may be a thought process preceding the decision to obey, and obedience is not necessarily a given.
It should be readily apparent that respect and trust are requirements for submission, and every other stage except servitude. As this seems widely recognized, it will just be noted here.
Stage 2 - Servitude - Key characteristics: proactive giving, happiness through others, selflessness.
Proactive giving is an active pursuit of opportunities to serve another person without expectation of reciprocation… service for the sake of service itself. While a person that is submissive will follow orders to serve, the service-oriented person continually pursues ways to better serve their partner. This characteristic can usually be observed in a service-oriented person outside the context of BDSM relationships as well.
The service-oriented person derives some of their own happiness from the happiness they create for someone else. While others aren't their sole source of joy, this is often a primary one.
Selflessness is lowering the priority of one's own wants in favor of someone else's. It is an unconscious behavior by the service-oriented person, and can be a concern when taken to an extreme. Due to selflessness, the service-oriented person may have difficulty asking for things from their partner.
I believe that servitude is an inherent need in some people, whether born or bred. It is an orientation. While it's certainly possible for someone without this need to act in a service-oriented manner, this probably isn't maintainable in the long term.
Servitude doesn't necessarily require submission, although most service-oriented people are probably also submissive by nature. The combination is the service submissive, who may also be a slave.
Stage 3 - Slavery = Key characteristics: submission and service, power exchange (broad), total obedience, ownership
Slavery is the combination of deep submission and a strong service orientation. Not only has the slave submitted to their dominant (master), but also an ongoing behavior is proactive service. "Deep" submission is characterized by broad power exchange and total obedience.
Broad power exchange as I define it has the following characteristics:
- Consent is for an unspecified period, and the submissive does not have the right to withdraw consent without the dominant's agreement. Agreement will typically be granted.
- The exchange is exclusive. All activities not specifically limited are in-bounds.
- The submissive has relatively few explicit limits, or none at all. Note that this does not remove all moral obligations on the part of the dominant.
- The exchange is not limited to certain times, but is a fundamental thread running throughout the participant’s lives.
Total obedience is expected of the slave as a characteristic of their submission. While there may still be a thought process prior to obedience, the outcome will be to try to obey.
A different view of the relationship arises in slavery, that of ownership. The dominant and submissive both consider the latter owned by the former. While this is not a legally recognized status, the mutual agreement about this ownership makes it as legitimate as any other relationship.
Stage 4 - Surrender - Key characteristics: slavery, power exchange (total), thoughtless obedience, and property.
As slavery can be considered a subcategory of submission, surrender is a subcategory of slavery. In addition to basic slavery, there are more strict requirements of the power exchanged, and the surrendered slave exhibit thoughtless obedience and considers themselves property.
Total power exchange as I define it has the following characteristics:
- Consent is for an unspecified period, and the submissive does not have the right to withdraw consent.
- The exchange is without explicit limits. All activities are the right of the dominant, but moral obligations remain.
- The exchange is not limited to certain times, but is a fundamental thread running throughout the relationship.
Obedience becomes thoughtless in the surrendered slave. Orders from the dominant are unquestionably obeyed without regard to their content. This change represents a significant increase in the dominant's level of responsibility in the relationship.
It is difficult to explain the shift from ownership to property, since they seem to mean the same thing. In a property mindset, the surrendered slave has internalized and accepted ownership to the extent that they are the equivalent of any other possession.
Monday, May 17, 2010
Sunday, May 16, 2010
Rules to be followed
Some person created this list and My Black Master revamped it, as some of the points in this list were very good. Although there were 125 rules, Master just chose the ones that appealed and made sense to him. The rest he said was idiotic.
RULES FOR BLACK COCK SLUT
1) I will serve, obey and please my Black Master.
2) Above all else my only desire is to please my Black Master.
3) I worship my Black Master.
4) I worship my Black Master's body.
5) I worship my Black Master's whip.
6) I trust my Black Master.
7) I am nothing more than an object of great value - an instrument to be used by my Black Master for his pleasures.
8) I will thank my Black Master for the discipline and punishments I receive.
9) I am always in submission to my Black Master.
10) I shall wear the collar my Black Master gives me with pride for it signifies His sign ownership and my sign of devotion to Him.
11) I shall wear the chains my Black Master gives me as a symbol of my position in life - that of bondage to Him.
12) When the cock of my Black Master is put into my mouth and I am directed to suck it - I will do so vigorously and with complete stokes all the way to the base of his cock as long as I am required to do so.
13) My Black Master's cum must never go to waste - I will keep it in my mouth until my Master directs me to swallow it. I will be punished should I spill any of it from my lips. I will lick it up from my hands or from a plate I hold in front of Him to receive it, or with the food He gives me, which He may require of me to hold just under His cock as He ejaculates over it. I will clean His cock thoroughly squeezing out every last drop. In rare and privileged cases I may wear my Master's cum on my body - sometimes after massaging it into my skin. Cum is a gift from my Master and an honor to receive it. The eating of my Master's cum will be considered as one of my meals for that day. The same rule applies to any other black men’s cocks that my Black Master wishes to feed me.
14) I worship my Black Master's cock.
15) I will worship my Black Master's ass only after a thorough washing of it. I shall do so hungrily being sure to lick between the cheeks for as long as Master requires me to do so. I will use my hands to spread my Master's cheeks apart. The same rule applies to any other blacks men’s Asses my Black Master wishes me to lick.
16) My pussy must be kept completely shaved smooth and clean so that nothing of me is hidden from view.
17) My pussy and ass must be thoroughly washed and properly perfumed before serving my Black Master. And my ass must be lubricated for easy access.
18) My "place" is on my knees before my Black Master.
19) I will always be ready to please my Black Master.
20) I choose willingly to be the property of Black Master and wish only that He will see and treat me as His property.
21) I must never reach orgasm without explicit permission from my Black Master. Failure to receive properly asked for or received permission and I will endure the punishment my Black Master puts upon me
22) I must tell my Black Master when I need to be punished and why.
23) I must tell my Black Master when I have been bad.
24) My limits do not have to be respected - I trust my Black Master.
25) I will endure whatever pain my Black Master gives me when he disciplines or punishes me so I can become a better slave for Him.
26) I will never touch my breasts, nipples, pussy or clit with my hands or sex toys without permission from my Black Master except to wash them, shave my pussy, adjust my breasts as I fit them into clothing, or to attach my rings.
27) Only through submission can I find my true self.
28) I must never show disrespect for my Black Master in any way- no matter where I am - in his presence or not.
29) Crying and the shedding of tears for my Black Master during punishment is good and expected for it soften my will and bond me closer to my Black Master.
30) The needs of my Black Master are more important than my own.
31) I must always respond fully both physically and verbally to whatever my Black Master does with me.
32) I must always remember how pleased my Black Master is when others delight in my sexiness as a result of my ability to show off my assets.
33) My behavior must always be sexual
34) I will always sleep in the nude with my Black master's cock in or near my mouth - kneeling first before I enter my bed and kneeling first as soon as I get out of my bed for it is a great privilege to have a bed to sleep on.
35) I must never tighten my body when it is being whipped, caned, cropped, slapped, paddled, belted, strapped, spanked, bullwhipped, whipped, or anally or vaginally pumped. My Black Master likes it when my flesh jiggles and He knows that when I tighten my body it hurts more.
36) I am proud to wear upon my body the marks given to me by my Black Master. I know that my Black Master will never mark me permanently, but I will gladly suffer for Him so he can mark me with the stripes he wishes to decorate my body with for His viewing pleasure.
37) My ass must always be plugged with a butt plug and never removed unless it is an emergency to the bathroom after which it should be replaced. The plug is a sign of ownership from my Black Master and only he has the right to remove it.
38) I shall proudly wear the initials of my Black Master on my right upper ass cheek to signify that He owns me and that I am a slave.
39) I will not speak to others without my Black Master's permission except to say to them that they will have to speak to my Black Master first. This is especially important at play parties.
40) I shall learn to endure whippings from my Black Master by using the technique of saying 'YES' upon each strike.
41) I shall gladly make my body available to my Black Master to be used as furniture: a footstool to rest his weary feet and legs upon, my backside for a table to eat off of, my breasts to hold his wine glass between, and the palms of my hands to be used to hold a plate of food or other items.
42) As a sexual slave I shall offer the use of my body to those selected by my Black Master for their pleasure. (Which will only be Black men)
43) The end of an evening and the beginning of a day shall always be with an OTK spanking and a cock feeding.
44) When my Black Master uses me for His pleasures or fucking and I can feel myself about ready to have an orgasm - I must ask for permission to have it or hold on till He gives me permission to do so. I must tell my Black Master if I am having an orgasm without His permission so that I can be punished for my disobedience and disrespect.
45) If I am sent to another Black Master to serve -I will serve them well for I want my Black Master to receive a good report of my service to them.
46) When I have been chosen by a Black Master, I shall be assigned a slave name, thereafter, when someone asks who I am I can respond with the following: " My name is xxxx." Willow will no longer exist.
47) Should I decide to be auctioned when my year of servitude is up, all proceeds from my sale will be given to my Black Master.
RULES FOR BLACK COCK SLUT
1) I will serve, obey and please my Black Master.
2) Above all else my only desire is to please my Black Master.
3) I worship my Black Master.
4) I worship my Black Master's body.
5) I worship my Black Master's whip.
6) I trust my Black Master.
7) I am nothing more than an object of great value - an instrument to be used by my Black Master for his pleasures.
8) I will thank my Black Master for the discipline and punishments I receive.
9) I am always in submission to my Black Master.
10) I shall wear the collar my Black Master gives me with pride for it signifies His sign ownership and my sign of devotion to Him.
11) I shall wear the chains my Black Master gives me as a symbol of my position in life - that of bondage to Him.
12) When the cock of my Black Master is put into my mouth and I am directed to suck it - I will do so vigorously and with complete stokes all the way to the base of his cock as long as I am required to do so.
13) My Black Master's cum must never go to waste - I will keep it in my mouth until my Master directs me to swallow it. I will be punished should I spill any of it from my lips. I will lick it up from my hands or from a plate I hold in front of Him to receive it, or with the food He gives me, which He may require of me to hold just under His cock as He ejaculates over it. I will clean His cock thoroughly squeezing out every last drop. In rare and privileged cases I may wear my Master's cum on my body - sometimes after massaging it into my skin. Cum is a gift from my Master and an honor to receive it. The eating of my Master's cum will be considered as one of my meals for that day. The same rule applies to any other black men’s cocks that my Black Master wishes to feed me.
14) I worship my Black Master's cock.
15) I will worship my Black Master's ass only after a thorough washing of it. I shall do so hungrily being sure to lick between the cheeks for as long as Master requires me to do so. I will use my hands to spread my Master's cheeks apart. The same rule applies to any other blacks men’s Asses my Black Master wishes me to lick.
16) My pussy must be kept completely shaved smooth and clean so that nothing of me is hidden from view.
17) My pussy and ass must be thoroughly washed and properly perfumed before serving my Black Master. And my ass must be lubricated for easy access.
18) My "place" is on my knees before my Black Master.
19) I will always be ready to please my Black Master.
20) I choose willingly to be the property of Black Master and wish only that He will see and treat me as His property.
21) I must never reach orgasm without explicit permission from my Black Master. Failure to receive properly asked for or received permission and I will endure the punishment my Black Master puts upon me
22) I must tell my Black Master when I need to be punished and why.
23) I must tell my Black Master when I have been bad.
24) My limits do not have to be respected - I trust my Black Master.
25) I will endure whatever pain my Black Master gives me when he disciplines or punishes me so I can become a better slave for Him.
26) I will never touch my breasts, nipples, pussy or clit with my hands or sex toys without permission from my Black Master except to wash them, shave my pussy, adjust my breasts as I fit them into clothing, or to attach my rings.
27) Only through submission can I find my true self.
28) I must never show disrespect for my Black Master in any way- no matter where I am - in his presence or not.
29) Crying and the shedding of tears for my Black Master during punishment is good and expected for it soften my will and bond me closer to my Black Master.
30) The needs of my Black Master are more important than my own.
31) I must always respond fully both physically and verbally to whatever my Black Master does with me.
32) I must always remember how pleased my Black Master is when others delight in my sexiness as a result of my ability to show off my assets.
33) My behavior must always be sexual
34) I will always sleep in the nude with my Black master's cock in or near my mouth - kneeling first before I enter my bed and kneeling first as soon as I get out of my bed for it is a great privilege to have a bed to sleep on.
35) I must never tighten my body when it is being whipped, caned, cropped, slapped, paddled, belted, strapped, spanked, bullwhipped, whipped, or anally or vaginally pumped. My Black Master likes it when my flesh jiggles and He knows that when I tighten my body it hurts more.
36) I am proud to wear upon my body the marks given to me by my Black Master. I know that my Black Master will never mark me permanently, but I will gladly suffer for Him so he can mark me with the stripes he wishes to decorate my body with for His viewing pleasure.
37) My ass must always be plugged with a butt plug and never removed unless it is an emergency to the bathroom after which it should be replaced. The plug is a sign of ownership from my Black Master and only he has the right to remove it.
38) I shall proudly wear the initials of my Black Master on my right upper ass cheek to signify that He owns me and that I am a slave.
39) I will not speak to others without my Black Master's permission except to say to them that they will have to speak to my Black Master first. This is especially important at play parties.
40) I shall learn to endure whippings from my Black Master by using the technique of saying 'YES' upon each strike.
41) I shall gladly make my body available to my Black Master to be used as furniture: a footstool to rest his weary feet and legs upon, my backside for a table to eat off of, my breasts to hold his wine glass between, and the palms of my hands to be used to hold a plate of food or other items.
42) As a sexual slave I shall offer the use of my body to those selected by my Black Master for their pleasure. (Which will only be Black men)
43) The end of an evening and the beginning of a day shall always be with an OTK spanking and a cock feeding.
44) When my Black Master uses me for His pleasures or fucking and I can feel myself about ready to have an orgasm - I must ask for permission to have it or hold on till He gives me permission to do so. I must tell my Black Master if I am having an orgasm without His permission so that I can be punished for my disobedience and disrespect.
45) If I am sent to another Black Master to serve -I will serve them well for I want my Black Master to receive a good report of my service to them.
46) When I have been chosen by a Black Master, I shall be assigned a slave name, thereafter, when someone asks who I am I can respond with the following: " My name is xxxx." Willow will no longer exist.
47) Should I decide to be auctioned when my year of servitude is up, all proceeds from my sale will be given to my Black Master.
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
My Black Masters Ten Commandments
Here are my Black Masters Ten Commandants - These are for sluts who love black cock.
1) Thou Shall Fuck No Other Men other Than Black Men
2) Thou Shall Not Wear Panties With Black Men
3) Thou Shall Assume The Role Of An Absolute Slave To Your Black Master At All Time
4) Thou Shall Allow All Black Men To Ride Thy Ass And Pussy Be It Bareback Or With Condoms With your Masters Permission (Usually With Condoms Because Of STD’s, Only Masters Trusted Friends And Elite Clientele Would Be Bareback-Proof Will be Provided)
5) Thou Shall Honour all Black Men And Their Brothers
6) Thou Shall Submit To Any Black Man's Command (The Ones Master Allows To Play With His Slave)
7) Thou Shall Not Masturbate At Any Time Without The Consent Of Your Masters
8) Thou shall not orgasm without the consent of your Master
9) Thou Shall Present Your Ass For Punishment Should Your Master So Desires
10) Thou shall have to earn the privilege of your Masters Black Cock.
If you fail to carry out any of the above commandments, you will be subjected to public humiliation!
1) Thou Shall Fuck No Other Men other Than Black Men
2) Thou Shall Not Wear Panties With Black Men
3) Thou Shall Assume The Role Of An Absolute Slave To Your Black Master At All Time
4) Thou Shall Allow All Black Men To Ride Thy Ass And Pussy Be It Bareback Or With Condoms With your Masters Permission (Usually With Condoms Because Of STD’s, Only Masters Trusted Friends And Elite Clientele Would Be Bareback-Proof Will be Provided)
5) Thou Shall Honour all Black Men And Their Brothers
6) Thou Shall Submit To Any Black Man's Command (The Ones Master Allows To Play With His Slave)
7) Thou Shall Not Masturbate At Any Time Without The Consent Of Your Masters
8) Thou shall not orgasm without the consent of your Master
9) Thou Shall Present Your Ass For Punishment Should Your Master So Desires
10) Thou shall have to earn the privilege of your Masters Black Cock.
If you fail to carry out any of the above commandments, you will be subjected to public humiliation!
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