Wednesday, September 25, 2013

BDSM Checklist

Willingness quick-key:
? Don't understand this item.
* I will do with current sex partner only.
NO I WILL NOT DO that item under ANY circumstances (a hard limit).
0 No desire, don't like, will permit if special to Dom (a soft limit).
1 Don't want to do, but will.
2 Willing to do, but has no special appeal.
3 Usually LIKE doing, on an irregular/ occasional basis.
4 LIKE doing, would like it on a regular basis.
5 WILD TURN-ON, would like it as often as possible.

Name
Tried Before? (Y/N, N/A)
Willingness (NO, 0-5, *)
Yes, please.
I would love this.
I don’t love it, but I will do it for You.
No, I am not ready for that.
Abrasion
no
5
yes


Age play
no
5
yes


Anal sex
no
5
yes


Anal plugs (small)
yes
5
yes


Anal plugs (large)
yes
5
yes


Anal plug (public, under clothes)
yes
5
yes


Animal roles
no
1


no
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders)
no
4



Aromas
no
5
yes


Asphyxiation
no
2

yes

Auctioned for charity
no
5
yes


Bathroom use control
no
1

yes

Beating (soft)
no
5
yes


Beating (hard)
no
5
yes


Blindfolds
no
5
yes


Being serviced (sexual)
yes
5
yes


Birching
no
5
yes


Belts
no
5
yes


Being bitten
yes
2

yes

Breast/chest bondage
no
5
yes


Breath control
no
no


no
Branding
no
no


no
Boot worship
no
2

yes

Bondage (light)
no
5
yes


Bondage (heavy)
no
5
yes


Bondage (public, under clothing)
no
5
yes


Breast whipping
no
2

yes

bullwhip
no
4
yes


Cages (locked inside of)
no
5
yes


Caning
no
5
yes


Cattle prod (electrical toy)
no
5
yes


Cells/Closets (locked inside of)
no
5
yes


Chains
no
5
yes


Chamber-pot use
no
1


no
Chastity belts
no
3

yes

Chores (domestic service)
yes
3

yes

Clothespins
yes
5
yes


Cock worship
yes
5
yes


Collars (worn in private)
yes
5
yes


Collars (worn in public)
no
5
yes


Competitions (with other subs)
no
2

yes

Corsets (wearing casually)
yes
5
yes


Corsets (trained waist reduction)
no
no


no
Cuffs (leather)
no
5
yes


Cuffs (metal)
no
5
yes


Cutting
no
no


no
Dildos
yes
5
yes


Double penetration
no
5
yes


Electricity
no
5
yes


Enemas (for cleansing)
no
2

yes

Enemas (retention/punishment)
no
2

yes

Enforced chastity
no
2

yes

Erotic dance (for audience)
no
3

yes

Examinations (physical)
no
5
yes


Exercise (forced/required)
yes
5
yes


Exhibitionism (friends)
no
5
yes


Exhibitionism (strangers)
no
5
yes


Eye contact restrictions
no
2

yes

Face slapping
no
3

yes

Fantasy rape
no
5
yes


Fantasy gang-rape
no
5
yes


Fear (being scared)
no
2

yes

Fisting (anal)
no
2

yes

Fisting (vaginal)
no
0


no
Flame play
no
3

yes

Flogging
no
5
yes


Following orders
no
5
yes


Food play (cucumbers, sorbet...)
yes
5
yes


Foot worship
no
2

yes

Forced masturbation
no
5
yes


Forced nudity (private)
no
5
yes


Forced nudity (around others)
no
5
yes


Forced orgasms
no
5
yes


Forced servitude
no
5
yes


Full head hoods
no
2

yes

Gags (cloth)
no
5
yes


Gags (inflatable)
no
2

yes

Gags (phallic)
no
4
yes


Gags (rubber)
no
4
yes


Gags (tape)
no
2

yes

Given away to another Dom (temp)
no
5
yes


Given away to another Dom (perm)
no
3

yes

Hairbrush spankings
no
5
yes


Hair pulling
no
5
yes


Hand jobs (giving)
yes
5
yes


Hand jobs (receiving)
yes
5
yes


Harems (serving w/other subs)
no
3

yes

Harnessing (leather)
no
5
yes


Harnessing (rope)
no
5
yes


Having food chosen for you
no
3

yes

Having clothing chosen for you
no
5
yes


Head (give fellatio)
yes
5
yes


Head (give cunnilingus)
no
no


no
High heel wearing
yes
5
yes


High heel worship
no
2

yes

Homage with tongue (non-sexual)
no
3

yes

Hoods
no
5
yes


Hot oils (on genitals)
no
5
yes


Humiliation (private)
no
5
yes


Humiliation (public)
no
5
yes


Ice cubes
yes
5
yes


Immobilization
no
5
yes


Including others
no
5
yes


Initiation rites
no
4
yes


Injections
no
0


no
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage
no
4
yes


Interrogations
no
5
yes


Kidnapping
no
5
yes


Kneeling
no
5
yes


Knife play
no
0


no
Leather clothing
no
3

yes

Leather restraints
no
5
yes


Lectures for misbehavior
no
5



Licking (non-sexual)
no
5
yes


Lingerie (wearing)
yes
5
yes


Manacles & irons
no
5
yes


Massage (giving)
yes
5
yes


Massage (receiving)
yes
5
yes


Medical scenes
no
5
yes


Modeling for erotic photos
no
5
yes


Mouth bits
no
2

yes

Mummification
no
2

yes

Name change (for scene)
no
5
yes


Nipple clamps
yes
5
yes


Nipple play/"torture"
no
5
yes


Nipple weights
yes
5
yes


Oral/anal play (rimming)
no
3

yes

Over-the-knee spanking
no
5
yes


Orgasm denial
no
5
yes


Orgasm control
no
5
yes


Outdoor scenes
no
5
yes


Outdoor sex
no
5
yes


Pain (mild)
no
5
yes


Pain (medium)
no
5
yes


Pain (severe)
no
3

yes

Personality modification (RL)
no
3

yes

Prison scenes
no
5
yes


Prostitution (public pretense)
no
5
yes


Prostitution (actual)
no
3

yes

Punishment Scene
no
5
yes


Pussy whipping
no
5
yes


Riding crops
no
5
yes


Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.)
no
5
yes


Restrictive rules on behavior
no
4
yes


Rope body harness
no
5
yes


Serving
yes
5
yes


Serving as art
no
2

yes

Serving as ashtray
no
2

yes

Serving as furniture
no
2

yes

Serving as a maid
no
2

yes

Serving as waitress
no
2

yes

Serving orally (sexual)
no
5
yes


Serving other doms (supervised)
no
5
yes


Serving other doms (unsupervised)
no
5
yes


Sexual deprivation (short term)
no
5
yes


Sexual deprivation (long term)
no
2

yes

Shaving (genital hair)
yes
5
yes


Shaving (head hair)
no
no


no
Skinny-dipping
yes
5
yes


Sleep deprivation
no
2

yes

Sleep sacks
no
2

yes

Slutty clothing (private)
no
5
yes


Slutty clothing (public)
no
5
yes


Spanking
no
5
yes


Speech restrictions (when, what)
no
3

yes

Speculums (anal)
no
5
yes


Speculums (vaginal)
no
5
yes


Spitting
no
3

yes

Spreader bars
no
5
yes


Standing in corner
no
5
yes


Stocks
no
5
yes


Straight jackets
no
2

yes

Strap-on-dildos (sucking on)
no
4
yes


Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by)
no
5
yes


Strapping (full body beating)
no
5
yes


Suspension (upright)
no
4
yes


Suspension (inverted)
no
0


no
Suspension (horizontal)
no
4
yes


Swallowing semen
yes
5
yes


Swapping (with one other couple)
no
5
yes


Tattooing
no
1


no
Teasing
no
2

yes

TENS Unit (electrical toy)
no
5
yes


Triple penetration
no
5
yes


Uniforms
no
5
yes


Vaginal dildo
yes
5
yes


Verbal humiliation
no
5
yes


Vibrator on genitals
yes
5
yes


Violet Wand (electrical toy)
no
5
yes


Voyeurism (others watching you)
no
5
yes


Voyeurism (your Dom watching others with you)
no
5
yes


Video (watching others)
yes
5
yes


Video (recordings of you)
no
5
yes


Water torture
no
5
yes


Waxing (hair removal)
yes
5
yes


Wearing symbolic jewelry
yes
5
yes


Whipping
no
5
yes


Wooden paddles
no
5
yes








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